Hallelujah, someone turned my brain on! I finally figured out that there was a difference between a peace keeper and peace maker. I have, for my whole life, been a peace keeper. I am now going to be a peace maker. Brace yo-self!
....The peace keeper goes around trying to make everyone happy. Does there best to do or not do things so that no one gets upset. Doesn't say too much when another is wreaking havoc. A peace maker says, "Hey. That behavior is not acceptable in my life, family, church, whatever. You need either straighten up or hit the road. If you don't do one of those two, Ima bust you up." (Figuratively speaking, of course.)
The Worst Preacher's Wife Ever